Description: Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love by Nancy Dreyfuss This elegantly packaged spiral-bound book features more than one hundred of Dreyfuss "flash cards for real life"-written statements that express what we wish we could communicate to the person we love, but either cant find the right words or the right tone in which to say it. FORMAT Paperback LANGUAGE English CONDITION Brand New Publisher Description "The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars." -Erin Meanley, Glamour.comTalk to Me Like Im Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples-therapy session in which a wifes unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, "Talk to me like Im someone you love," and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar powerdifferential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged.This revised edition features two new sections-one on making love and another on deepening trust-containing over 25 new "flash cards for real life," written statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love but for which we cant find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. Each of the statements in this book is accompanied by "field notes" from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement, as well as real-life stories from the authors practice.No matter our attachment style, we all crave connection with our partners. Learn how to transform your unproductive communication patterns with this helpful, practical, and sometimes magical tool from experienced couples therapist Nancy DreyfusTalk to Me Like Im Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples-therapy session in which a wifes unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, "Talk to me like Im someone you love," and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar powerdifferential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged.This revised edition features two new sections-one on making love and another on deepening trust-containing over 25 new "flash cards for real life," written statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love but for which we cant find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. Each of the statements in this book is accompanied by "field notes" from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement, as well as real-life stories from the authors practice."The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars." -Erin Meanley, Glamour online Author Biography Nancy Dreyfus, Psy.D., is a psychotherapist and couples therapist with more than two decades of experience. She holds a doctorate degree from Hahnemann University Medical School. Review "Just about any couple using this material could humanize their relationship."—Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want"Nancy Dreyfus and her flash cards were an inspiration behind our research into the important process of attempting to change the affect during marital-conflict resolution."—John Gottman, Ph.D., author of The Relationship Cure"The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars."—Erin Meanley, Glamour.com"Veteran psychotherapist Nancy Dreyfus has written an insightful guide that highlights the power of written messages to diffuse tension and put an end to conflict"—Tucson Citizen Promotional When it comes to chronic relationship conflict, talking can be overrated. Sometimes what a couple needs is to just stop, breathe, and say the right thing (for once!). This book shows how. Review Quote "Just about any couple using this material could humanize their relationship." -Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want "Nancy Dreyfus and her flash cards were an inspiration behind our research into the important process of attempting to change the affect during marital-conflict resolution." -John Gottman, Ph.D., author of The Relationship Cure "The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars ." -Erin Meanly, Glamour.com "Veteran psychotherapist Nancy Promotional "Headline" When it comes to chronic relationship conflict, talking can be overrated. Sometimes what a couple needs is to just stop, breathe, and say the right thing (for once!). This book shows how. Details ISBN0399162003 Language English ISBN-10 0399162003 ISBN-13 9780399162008 Media Book Format Paperback DEWEY 646.78 Year 2013 Publication Date 2013-01-03 Edition Description Expanded, Updat Short Title TALK TO ME LIKE IM S-UPDATED/E Subtitle Relationship Repair in a Flash Country of Publication United States Edition 2nd Place of Publication New York Imprint Tarcher/Putnam,US UK Release Date 2013-01-03 US Release Date 2013-01-03 Narrator Llewella Gideon Translator Heather Lloyd Edited by Eric Lichtfouse Affiliation Chair of Penology, University of Edinburgh Position Chair of Penology Qualifications MD, Ph.D Author Nancy Dreyfuss Pages 384 Publisher Tarcher/Putnam,US Replaces 9781585427703 Audience General NZ Release Date 2013-03-26 AU Release Date 2013-03-26 We've got this At The Nile, if you're looking for it, we've got it. With fast shipping, low prices, friendly service and well over a million items - you're bound to find what you want, at a price you'll love! 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Book Title: Talk to Me like I'm Someone You Love: Relationship Repair in a Flash
Item Height: 210mm
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Author: Nancy Dreyfuss
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Topic: Opinion of the People
Publisher: Tarcher/Putnam,Us
Publication Year: 2013
Item Weight: 1g
Number of Pages: 384 Pages